Are You Called to be a Spiritual Director?

by Claire Dwyer

The subject of spiritual direction is one that seems to get everyone’s attention these days—there is a growing interest in both having a spiritual director and in becoming one.  A new partnership promises to bless the Church with increased opportunities in both areas.

The Avila Institute for Spiritual Formation is collaborating with the Heart of Christ Spiritual Direction program to offer an integrated training in spiritual direction with a Carmelite and Ignatian emphasis.  Two phases—the first with the Avila Institute, and the second with Heart of Christ—provide a comprehensive foundation for an aspiring spiritual director.

Phase I includes four live, interactive, six-week online classes through the Avila Institute:

  1. Foundations in Prayer and Union with God
  2. Discernment of Spirits I
  3. Breaking the Chains that Bind Us:  An Introduction to Moral Theology
  4. Introduction to Spiritual Direction

The online coursework is followed by the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius and then students may apply to Heart of Christ for Phase II.  If accepted, they attend a week-long training on-site in Ann Arbor, Michigan.  A second year of formation with a guided practicum led by Heart of Christ founders Tesa Fleming and Jeannette Barbacane ends with another week-long training in Ann Arbor.

So far, 57 people have completed the program.  This year saw 15 graduates, the largest class and the first group to have gone through the partnership program with the Avila Institute.  The co-founders couldn’t have been happier with the success of the joint effort and the possibilities it opens up for people all over the world.  Dan Burke (founder of the Avila Institute) “could breach the divide between technology and community, “ they reflected.  “People love and trust him.”

Heart of Christ School of Spiritual Direction graduates of 2019

What is most exciting, they say, is to see students “get it” during practicum, to watch the evolution of the relationship of director with directee.  Inevitably, says Tesa, “they themselves are transformed as they direct others.”  This is because, Jeannette adds, the program is not academic or informational but formational—and “a docile aspiring director will allow themselves to be molded by grace.”

Tesa believes one of the biggest transformations in the lives of the new directors is the growth in their ability to listen.  A recent graduate agrees: “All the students in the program felt that we were unqualified to be spiritual directors, though we also felt called – one of the many paradoxes of the faith journey that one encounters. Dan commented to us all that not feeling qualified was actually a qualification! Learning to listen…really listening, applying both active and passive components…is fundamental, very challenging and an art to be honed over a lifetime.”

What advice do Tesa and Jeannette give to those who feel they may be called to spiritual direction, but are not sure?  “Pray, first of all,” advises Tesa, “and then start taking the Avila courses.  You won’t know until you try it.  But even if you discern out, you’ll be a better person for it!”  

For more information visit the Avila Institute or the Heart of Christ School of Spiritual Direction.

 

Photos courtesy of Michele Green.  Used with permission.

Claire Dwyer

Mom, Wife, Interior Life — that’s it in a nutshell.

Claire’s been devouring books and pouring the words back out again longer than she can remember. It’s where her love of God and the Catholic faith finds its fullest expression.

Claire graduated Summa Cum Laude from the Franciscan University of Steubenville with a degree in Theology, has a certification in Spiritual Theology from the Avila Institute, and a certification in Spiritual Direction from St. Vincent Seminary’s Institute of Ministry Formation.

Her roles as mother, mentor, spiritual writer, editor of spiritualdirection.com, and lifelong student of the interior life all came together in her first book, "This Present Paradise: A Spiritual Journey with St. Elizabeth of the Trinity." She is also the author of Blessed is She's Advent study, In Time: Living in the Now and Not Yet" and a contributor to their daily devotionals, and has written a book on St. Edith Stein set to release January of 2027.

She has a passion, through writing and speaking, for helping the faithful to see the beauty and possibility of their own interior lives and their unrepeatable place in the Church, and for Catholic writers in particular to be encouraged and formed in their writing journey. To that end, she is co-founder and content director of Write These Words and the PraiseWriters Catholic Writing Membership Community.

Most importantly, she has been married for almost 28 years to her husband Delaney and they have six children and two grandsons.

Connect and keep in touch with her at ClaireDwyer.com. You can also read about spirituality for the Catholic writer on her Substack, Word and Silence. 

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