Prayer Reveals Who We Are

In genuine prayer, we encounter a reality that lies deeper than our passing thoughts, feelings, and emotions. Often- sometimes without even realizing it- we allow these inner movements and the narrative they create to tell us who we really are. When anxiety arises, we tend to identify ourselves as anxious. When fear or insecurity appears, we identify ourselves as fearful or insecure. Naturally, then, these inner movements and our experiences of them begin to shape our self-understanding. Without prayer, we risk mistaking a small portion of our inner life for the whole portrait of who we are.

Prayer, gently- and at times forcefully- interrupts this confusion. In prayer, we do not deny our emotions or repress our thoughts, nor do we pretend that they are insignificant. Rather, in prayer all of our inner movements are placed within a larger and truer context: the truth that our deepest identity consists in being sons and daughters of God, regardless of what our inner experiences may suggest. Through fidelity to daily prayer and by coming before God as we truly are, we slowly discover that there is far more to us than what we feel at any given moment. Beneath whatever turbulence may exist in our hearts and minds lies a deeply consoling truth: we are rooted in God and loved by Him, regardless of how we feel.

The saints and mystics teach us that prayer reveals not only who God is, but who we truly are. St. Paul expressed this when he says, “You are no longer strangers and sojourners but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God.” (Eph 2:19). This profound insight by St. Paul was not learned in a classroom or discovered in a book. It was the conclusion wrought through a lived relationship- born in the depths of prayer- where God reveals both His identity and ours.

What prayer ultimately teaches us, then, is that we belong to God. Our thoughts, feelings, and emotions are real, but they do not disclose our deepest identity. At best, they form only part of the picture. In prayer, the other part is revealed: that we are sons and daughters of God, known and loved by Him. Seeing ourselves through this fuller vision that prayer reveals, we begin to recognize that we are not fear or anxiety, but beloved members of God’s own family.

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Fr. Jeremiah Shryock CFR

Fr. Jeremiah Myriam Shryock CFR, is from Barto, PA. He graduated from Kutztown University in Kutztown, PA in 2002 where he studied Philosophy and professional writing. In September of 2002 he entered the Community of Franciscan Friars of the Renewal (CFR) and was ordained a priest in 2011 by Cardinal Timothy Dolan in St. Patricks’ Cathedral in New York City. In 2014 he completed studies in spiritual direction at Our Lady of Divine Providence School of spiritual direction in Clearwater, FL. Throughout his time as a Franciscan, he has participated in his community’s charism of hands-on work with the poor and preaching. He lived for three years as a hermit at the Monastery of Bethlehem in Livingston Manor, NY and now currently lives in San Juan Diego Friary in Albuquerque, New Mexico where he preaches retreats, is a spiritual director and conducts parish missions on either the spiritual life or Mary.
He is author of Amid Passing Things: Life, Prayer, and Relationship with God, Mary and the Interior Life, and Let Him Lead: An Invitation to Let Jesus Guide Your Heart and Your Life (2025). For more information, visit his website at: fatherjeremiah.com and follow him on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/father_jeremiah/</a.