To Become Another Mary For Jesus

by Fr. Jeremiah Shryock CFR

When we consider the holiness of the patriarchs, prophets, and the saints of both East and West, we are edified by- and even marvel at- their sanctity and all the incredible things God accomplished in them and through them. They rightly invite both our admiration and veneration, for in honoring them we honor God Himself and are led to contemplate how “great are the works of the Lord” (111:2). Yet among all creatures, there is one who is holier still, one in whom God has accomplished His greatest work. That one, of course, is the Blessed Virgin Mary. 

Though we love and admire the patriarchs, the prophets, and all the saints, we must love and seek to imitate Mary even more. Why? Because she is more. She is purer and holier than all creatures. Where the saints reach their summit, Mary continues to ascend. She stands above all angels and saints in holiness. If fact, she is so holy that, among creatures, nothing greater can even be imagined. 

If the goal of the Christian life is holiness- what the Eastern Church often calls divinization, that is, becoming God-like- then it is impossible for any creature to be more God-like than Mary. The conclusion that follows is remarkably clear: if I truly desire to be holy, I must become another Mary for Jesus. More precisely, the whole purpose of the spiritual life is to become another Mary for Jesus. If Mary truly is the apex of human perfection, the brightest light among all creatures, and the one must fully alive in God, then how could one not desire- and earnestly seek- to become as much like her as possible, in order to become as fully alive in God as possible? 

If we truly wish to examine our spiritual lives, we need only ask ourselves, “How much am I like Mary?”To what extent do I resemble and imitate her love for God, her life of prayer, and her self-giving service of neighbor? Are my faith, hope, and charity as pure and undivided as hers? Insofar as I do not resemble her in these things, to that same extent I still have room to grow in holiness. In Mary, then, we have not only a Mother and a powerful intercessor, but also a living icon of who we are called to become. In her, the fullness of the human vocation- holiness- is perfectly realized. By contemplating her example and entrusting ourselves to her Motherly care, we are drawn toward the heights of holiness and enabled to become as fully alive in God as possible. 

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Fr. Jeremiah Shryock CFR

Fr. Jeremiah Myriam Shryock CFR, is from Barto, PA. He graduated from Kutztown University in Kutztown, PA in 2002 where he studied Philosophy and professional writing. In September of 2002 he entered the Community of Franciscan Friars of the Renewal (CFR) and was ordained a priest in 2011 by Cardinal Timothy Dolan in St. Patricks’ Cathedral in New York City. In 2014 he completed studies in spiritual direction at Our Lady of Divine Providence School of spiritual direction in Clearwater, FL. Throughout his time as a Franciscan, he has participated in his community’s charism of hands-on work with the poor and preaching. He lived for three years as a hermit at the Monastery of Bethlehem in Livingston Manor, NY and now currently lives in San Juan Diego Friary in Albuquerque, New Mexico where he preaches retreats, is a spiritual director and conducts parish missions on either the spiritual life or Mary.
He is author of Amid Passing Things: Life, Prayer, and Relationship with God, Mary and the Interior Life, and Let Him Lead: An Invitation to Let Jesus Guide Your Heart and Your Life (2025). For more information, visit his website at: fatherjeremiah.com and follow him on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/father_jeremiah/</a.

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