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151. The Greatest Yes (Luke 1:26-38)

December 14, 2011 by  
Filed under Fr. Bartunek, Meditations, The Better Part

“Therefore, though it is God who takes the initiative of coming to dwell in the midst of men, and he is always the main architect of this plan, it is also true that he does not will to carry it out without our active cooperation.” – Pope Benedict XVI

Luke 1:26-38: ‘In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent by God to a town in Galilee called Nazareth, to a virgin betrothed to a man named Joseph, of the House of David; and the virgin’s name was Mary. He went in and said to her, ‘Rejoice, so highly favoured! The Lord is with you.’ She was deeply disturbed by these words and asked herself what this greeting could mean, but the angel said to her, ‘Mary, do not be afraid; you have won God’s favour. Listen! You are to conceive and bear a son, and you must name him Jesus. He will be great and will be called Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his ancestor David; he will rule over the House of Jacob for ever and his reign will have no end.’ Mary said to the angel, ‘But how can this come about, since I am a virgin?’ ‘The Holy Spirit will come upon you,’ the angel answered, ‘and the power of the Most High will cover you with its shadow. And so the child will be holy and will be called Son of God. Know this too: your kinswoman Elizabeth has, in her old age, herself conceived a son, and she whom people called barren is now in her sixth month, for nothing is impossible to God.’ ‘I am the handmaid of the Lord,’ said Mary; ‘let what you have said be done to me.’ And the angel left her.’

Christ the Lord  Of whom can it be said, “His reign will have no end”? Only of Jesus Christ, the Son of God and the son of David (from whose descendents the promised Messiah was to be born), and the only man ever born of a virgin. Gabriel’s brief announcement to Mary foretells the advent of someone absolutely unique: the Davidic king who will rule over all the nations, the one who would save mankind from their sins (“Jesus” means “God saves”), and the one who would fulfill all the Old Testament prophecies about the reunification of Israel and Judah (the “House of Jacob”). The entire gospel is packed into this Annunciation of the Archangel Gabriel to Mary.

It is a gospel that at times is hard to believe. Sometimes it seems almost too good to be true – too simple, too easy. On the other hand, when the sufferings and tragedies of life and the tumultuous twists and turns of human history oppress us, it seems more like a fairy tale, a pipe dream. For Mary too the announcement was almost overwhelming. But her faith and purity sensitized her to God’s truth. She accepted the angel’s message and all its implications for her own life – a radical, unforeseen change in her plans. She was able to do so because she had long ago assimilated a doctrine we too often ignore, one that Gabriel reminded her of: “Nothing is impossible for God.”

Christ the Teacher  Christmas, the part of Christ’s life this Gospel passage is connected to, presents us with the mystery of God who became man, but it also includes the mystery of man cooperating in the saving action of God. God sends his messenger to Mary in order to invite her to become the mother of the Savior. She accepted the invitation, and history has never been the same. But it would have been possible for her to reject it. Like the parable Christ tells of the many townspeople who decline the king’s invitation to attend his son’s wedding feast, Mary could have considered God’s intervention just a disruption of her plans, an inconvenience. But she did not.

When God asked her to take on a role in his plan of salvation, she said yes: “I am the handmaid of the Lord, let what you have said be done to me.” Her question to the archangel, “But how can this come about, since I am a virgin?” was different than the similar sounding question Zechariah had posed: “How can I be sure of this? I am an old man and my wife is getting on in years.” Zechariah was asking for proof that God could do what he promised; Mary was merely asking what God wanted her to do – she had promised her virginity to God, and she wanted to know if God was asking her something else. She didn’t doubt God’s wisdom or power; she just wanted more instructions. This is why the angel’s response to her was generous, while his response to Zechariah was harsh. Zechariah answered God’s call by saying, “Prove it to me”; Mary answered saying, “Show me the way to go.”

We can learn no greater lesson than how to say yes to God. Mary’s “yes” reversed Eve’s “no,” and paved the way for Christ’s undoing of Adam’s fall. Likewise, when God disrupts our lives – through the voice of conscience, the normal responsibilities and demands of our state in life, or the indications of Church teaching – our “yes” can echo Mary’s and make more room for Christ in this fallen world. But our “no” – or even our “maybe” – can just as easily shut him out.

Christ the Friend  Many friends exchange gifts, but only Christ has given us his own mother, to be our solace and our refuge as we strive to follow in his footsteps.

As he was dying on the cross, Jesus entrusted his mother to the care of his “beloved disciple,” and he entrusted the disciple to her care: “When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple there whom he loved, he said to his mother, ‘Woman, behold, your son.’ Then he said to the disciple, ‘Behold, your mother.’ And from that hour the disciple took her into his home” (John 19:26-27).

From its earliest days, the Church has interpreted this passage in a deeply spiritual way: since Jesus has desired to have us as his brothers and sisters, he has also desired to share with us his mother, to give us a mother in the order of grace. Through the ages, Christians in all walks of life have been inspired by Mary’s example, comforted by her spiritual solicitude, and aided by her heavenly intercession. Wherever one finds true devotion to Mary (which consists primarily in the imitation of her “yes” to God, not just in pious expressions and pretty pictures), one finds as well a passionate love for Jesus Christ, the Savior. She accompanied him on every step of his earthly sojourn, and she accompanies his little brothers and sisters (that’s us) with equal love and concern.

Christ in My Life  Thank you for making me a Christian. You are the one Savior, the promised Messiah, and your Kingdom will have no end. You have called me into your Kingdom. What more could I ask for? You have given me your friendship. Lord, teach me to live closer to you, to have the same scale of values that you have, and to see all things with your eyes.

Mary, you were just a girl when God came and invited you to be the mother of the Savior. Even then you knew that God’s will was the highest and wisest calling. You didn’t fear missing out on all that the world had to offer, because you only wanted to stay close to the world’s Creator. Teach me to trust and love Christ, and teach me to give him to others, as you gave him to us.

How strange, Lord, that you made the history of salvation depend not only on your own actions, but also on the free cooperation of your creatures! You waited for Mary to say yes before coming to be our Savior. You wait for each of us to say yes before coming to save us. I renew my “yes” right now. Teach me to help others say yes too; only what I do for your Kingdom will last forever.


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About Fr. John Bartunek, LC

Fr. John Bartunek, LC, S.Th.D, received his BA in History from Stanford University in 1990. He comes from an evangelical Christian background and became a member of the Catholic Church in 1991. After college he worked as a high school history teacher, drama director, and baseball coach. He then spent a year as a professional actor in Chicago before entering the religious Congregation of the Legionaries of Christ in 1993. He was ordained a Catholic priest in 2003 and earned his doctorate in moral theology in 2010. He provided spiritual support on the set of Mel Gibson’s "The Passion of the Christ" while researching the 2005 Catholic best seller "Inside the Passion"--the only authorized, behind-the-scene explanation of the film. Fr. John has contributed news commentary regarding religious issues on NBC, CNN, Fox, and the BBC. He also served as the English-language press liaison for the Vatican’s 2005 Synod of Bishops on the Eucharist. His most widely known book is called: "The Better Part: A Christ-Centered Resource for Personal Prayer". He has also published two other titles: "Meditations for Mothers" and "A Guide to Christian Meditation". Fr. John currently splits his time between Rome and Rhode Island, where he teaches theology as an adjunct professor at the Pontifical Athenaeum Regina Apostolorum and at Mater Ecclesia College. He is also continuing his writing apostolate with online retreats at and questions and answers on the spiritual life at FATHER JOHN'S BOOKS include: "The Better Part: A Christ-Centered Resource for Personal Prayer", Inside the Passion--The Only Authorized Insiders View of Mel Gibson's The Passion of the Christ, Meditations for Mothers, and A Guide to Christian Meditation.

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  • Judeen Harthun

    in our yes to God in all things that happen to us…. what happens if we say we do not care. … or we can not suffer no more..??? did mary , through all her suffering wonder if she in her human state could go through it all…. she pleaded with Jesus to come home.. when jesus said who is my mother , brothers and sister…. how does one separate ones exhaustion and constant attacks and humanest from strenght to keep going on the hard path….. only grace can help one keep on Going.. only God can help us over come our fight to walk a path that is so hard….   even Jesus on the cross said why have you abandoned me….. when we sin we abandon Jesus… thank God for confession… and Gods mercy

  • ThirstforTruth

    I use Father’s book in my daily meditations…and have found it so helpful with understanding Scripture.  However I have been sometimes puzzled by the translation used, The Jerusalem Bible, as here in Luke 1:28.
    This quotes Gabriel as greeting Mary “Rejoice highly favoured!”.
    Whereas both the Douay Rheims and the RSV translations quote
    Gabriel greeting Mary ‘Hail, full of grace , the Lord is with you”.
    We have been taught that our prayer the Hail Mary is scriptural and it refers to this part of Luke “Hail Mary, full of grace..”
    Perhaps I am “nit-picking” but it seems to me important to the idea that Mary through her Immaculate Conception HAD to be so filled with the grace of God ( His life) that she was empowered by this grace to do what others could not…say Yes to the Lord’s request.  Also many today are saying Mary did not really know what was happening to her or Who Christ was…that all gradually unfolded to this simple young girl. As the commentator above says nothing happens without grace. The Jerusalem translation seems to underplay sort of this whole idea. Believing this I think the translation we use is important toward understanding who Mary really was and her full awareness through grace of what was to come as it occured.  If time permits Father I would appreciate your thoughts on this…maybe I am incorrect here.

  • Mary@42

    The best Post during this Season of Advent. Truly the Mother of our Lord gives us the response we need to give to God whenever we are faced with obstacles and difficulties on our Spiritual Journey Home : “Show me the way to go.” And He surely shows us the Way.  And our Mother is always at hand to walk with us.

  • Buffalodan99

    Thank you Mary for saying “Yes”.
    Now I am about to start my day, which means I need you to walk with me, so please Blessed Mother pray for us.

  • Magnoliaj1962

    I remember when I said yes to Jesus.  It was just 5 years ago.  It is comforting to be reminded that God is waiting for our yes everyday – to be recommitted to Him on a daliy basis.

  • Anonymous

    I tried to post a reply to this comment last week but it was lost in cyber-space.  I’ve since seem my SD and have confirmed that the Church does not teach that Mary knew what was going to happen to her.

    Several scripture verses come to mind but mostly, “Mary kept all these things and pondered them in her heart.”

    This may also be splitting hairs.. :) …..I prefer the definition of grace as ‘God’s action’.  You can find more here:

    God gives us grace only as needed.  I don’t have the grace today to face the root canal I have scheduled next week (I don’t really) but if I keep the appointment, he will give me the grace to get through it when the time comes.  That’s what Jesus is talking about in Matthew 6:34 Do not worry about tomorrow, sufficient for the day is its own evil.

    Mary always knew God (as did Adam and Eve before the fall).  As we grow in our relationship with the Lord, trust is one of the most important things we need to develop.  Except for what Jesus told her & his disciples, I don’t believe that Mary knew what was happening or why it was happening – at the nativity….on Calvary…..or anywhere else – yet because of her relationship with God she trusted that He knew what was best and accepted all that He allowed to happen to her.

    That’s why she is the perfect role model for us…..we too are asked to allow God to lead us through darkness and uncertainty – - we give up being in control – - and open wide our arms to receive His healing and love….even when it is painful.  Our Lady has “Been there – Done that!”

    Grace is an awesome thing to meditate on ~ when we stop believing in coincidences and believe that all things are gifted providentially (Through God’s providence) we start saying “WOW!”  From tiny thoughts, reminders, and actions, to those graces that help us through horrific and painful situations ….God’s grace sustains us….wow!  :)

    • MarytheDefender

      Yes! Ever since, I first said yes to our Lord. There are no such things as coincidences! :D I don’t how many times I have been so very grateful to Him for countless “coincidences”! Divine providence is wonderful!

    • Mary@42

      Thank you, Becky…your responses are always so enriching. You are not “splitting hairs”….The catholicculture Website you gave us has taught me more about Grace and in a deeper way over and above what we have in the Catechism of the Catholic Church.  God bless you and all of us on this invaluable Website which we love so much